HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

HER LGBTQ+ Dating & Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

 Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here.

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
 Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
 Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.